When a scientist set out to record parents in order to learn
more about yelling at children, he ended up collecting data on a disciplinary
action he didn't expect to see at such a high frequency. The parents he
recorded were not just yelling, they were spanking and slapping their children
too. The result of his research is an interesting look at a disciplinary
measure that has become culturally taboo and yet remains prevalent among
parents.
Spanking isn’t without any merit. In fact, hitting and
spanking can correct behavior in the short-term and doesn’t appear to lead to
long-term damage to the child if done infrequently. However, many studies have
revealed that frequent hitting and spanking can lead to long-term emotional and
behavioral problems, most notably resorting to violence to solve problems.
Despite the societal pressure and scientific findings that
push parents to avoid spanking, Professor George Holden was surprised to find
that 36 parents out of the 37 he studied resorted to slapping or spanking. It’s
one of the first studies to record data on spanking without using
self-reporting by participants. The reasons for spanking and slapping varied
widely – in one case it was because a child was fighting with his sister, in
another a child was trying to turn the pages of a book too quickly. The
researchers were surprised that the irony of using violence in order to stop a
child from being violent was lost on many parents. The parents were from a
range of economic and cultural backgrounds.
Do you intend to use
spanking as a form of discipline?
The First Real-Time Study of Parents Spanking Their Kids [
Time]