Barbara Hannah Grufferman is a mother of two and author of "The Best of Everything After 50." She quit as president of a small business in
order to stay home with her daughters, after over a decade of career building.
When she did return to the workforce, she was over 50 and had been out of the
business world for almost seven years.
In an article for the Huffington Post, Barbara provides some
wonderful insight for other mothers returning to the workforce.
Create your own board
of directors. Barbara proposes meeting with a group of friends each week to
serve as an accountability board. They give you input and feedback on decisions
before you make them. She recommends giving each person 15 minutes to pitch
their life changes, whether starting a business, leaving a relationship or just
small life issues. The group provides feedback
and each person leaves with a to-do list to be completed by the following week.
The group is there to keep you motivated and on the right track.
Network. Meet new
people and put your plans out there. Learn as much as you can about the people
you meet. You never know when the right connection is going to surface.
Review your
appearance. For mothers returning to the workforce, this is tough but
helpful. Who cares about their appearance when they’re busy running after a
toddler? However, when you feel good about the way you look, you’ll feel more
confident in interviews. Put yourself together in a clean, professional fashion
and make sure you feel great.
Know yourself. Knowing
what kind of person you are can help you figure out your next move. Are you a
people person? Detail-oriented? A numbers person? A creative powerhouse? Let
your strengths and weaknesses determine which job is right for you.
List your skills. It’s
been awhile since you’ve used your work skills, but you’ve probably added a few
just by being a mom. Keep a running list of what you’re capable of.
Learn new skills. Sometimes
learning how to use a specific program can improve your marketability significantly.
If you want to enter a new field entirely, don’t be afraid to test the waters
with some classes on subjects you’ve never tried.
Research companies. Instead
of searching out companies that are looking for
employees, figure out which companies you would love to work for. Seek out
companies that are known for treating women well in the workplace; many such ratings can
be found online.
Have no regrets. Everyone
has regrets but there comes a time when you need to let go. Forget the person
you used to be and be proud of who you are now. Leave your guilt and regret at
the door and present yourself as fully accepting of your life decisions.
Life After 50: Derailed by the 'Mommy Track'? 10 Tips to Get
Back to Work [
HuffPo]
How do you plan to get back in the workplace?